susan cain

Susan Cain

Are you an introvert? If so, you’re way more powerful than you feel.

Americans love an extrovert. We really do. Outgoing, Alpha-like, spotlight-ready, the life of the party, assertive, lots of words …

Amazingly, 1/3 to 1/2 of Americans are introverts. And yet some introverts try to act like extroverts because of the bias toward them. The extrovert is considered ideal by our culture today. The introvert has been considered a second-class personality trait.

But that all may be changing now.

What Gives You More Energy?

It’s not a hard and fast rule, but generally, being alone energizes you, you’re probably an introvert. If being with people increases your energy, you’re probably an extrovert.

  • Do you prefer a quiet dinner with friends or a loud party?
  • Do you enjoy solitude?
  • Do people tell you you’re a good listener?
  • Do you seem to care about wealth, fame, and status less than your peers?
  • Do you enjoy work that allows you to dive in with few interruptions?

If you answered “yes” to most or all of these questions, you are an introvert. But you probably already knew that.

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closing the doorYou will discover your authentic self behind a closed door …

There are those windows of time (and we need them regularly) in which everyone and everything has to be turned off. I know it sounds radical.

I’m not saying we should cut ourselves off from others. We are creatures of family, friendship, community and society. And there’s no joy or meaning in being a recluse.

Yet we need time when we lock ourselves away from it all. Why?

In a crowed, busy, loud world, here are several benefits of a closed door that are more than worth it … even if it costs us.

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There are no gains without pains.

Benjamin Franklin: No Pain, No Gain (The Way to Wealth)

personal identity

Lake Hawea in New Zealand. Photo by Trey Ratcliff Stuck in Customs

It’s amazing … Jesus said if we believe in him, we can do the same things he did. He even said we would do bigger things (see John 14:12).

He communicated this to his closest followers (and through them to us) on the eve of his death. He also said something else that evening that holds forth tremendous promise for us. It has to do with personal identity and abundant living.

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Prayer is our infinite, not-fully-developed resource to invade impossibilities. Potential is waiting to be unleashed. Is there anything more creative?

augmented photography

Very creative. Awesome augmented photography with Thomas & Hobbes. Great for background wallpapers. There’s more and even more here

clarity

Just reflecting on a few thoughts about progressing … advancing in our personal lives and in our work. The clearer we can get on what we want and need, the better. And a missing key may be the intensity level of our desire.

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